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What a fabulous word…YES…I would have to say that I am content with a lot of things. I do not have to look for approval or contentment outside of myself, worrying about the whole “I am not good enough” thing. Maybe, when I was younger and not older and wiser like today, I would run around trying to please everyone, and put my own feelings aside and even to a non boundary fault…YUCK YUCK…and OH did I say YUCK. This journey I call life has blessed me with many discoveries of positive growth and has opened my eyes to seeing all that I have gone through as part of that process. If you have read my bio, you can understand a bit of what I am talking about.
I want to really dig deeper into my satisfaction though as it relates to my fitness and maintaining ME at 48. YES…I am serious about my health, maintain a good quality of life, and the outer shell benefits of that…of course…LOVE it. I would not be truthful with you if I did not admit that. The point I am trying to make is that I am content…I do not need to look further , to look better, to be thinner, to be leaner, to be more muscular…I am truly content with my work and maintenance feels over the top satisfying . I can and do get satisfaction each day as I live being the BEST me with all my limitations…I am GOOD.
I have been around the block to hear and see so many people who are not happy even when they reach their goals and even living their goals…meaning a healthy lifestyle…it is still not enough. It saddens me because that is a deeper issue…the one that haunts within, the one that may creep in from the past or be caused by the past or even the present. Let me tell you being a positive advocate for counseling, therapy, and woman of strong faith …this would be the time to visit that part of life…to see what the heck is going on to cause such unhappiness and nonacceptance of self. Been there, done that, and greatly appreciative of all that I have learned and having God on my side through the process…HIP HIP HOORAY, HEALED, and Happily Ever After Content!
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I look at myself and NO…no longer that 20 something that I see in both my daughter and stepdaughter…absolute peaches and cream skin beauties they are…WOW…I marvel in that for them. But that is how it is supposed to be…48 comes with love lines, and battle scars that I have earned from my journey of life, having children, surgeries, and the overall aging process…I mean really…am I supposed to look 20 something... A BIG NO…I am being real here…seriously…and I will not undergo any process on my face to take away the privilege and honor of being ME. Will I do my BEST to be my BEST…of course…I am trendy, not frumpy, and love to feel sexy. Being healthy satisfies all those things for me and that is who I want to be…ME.
I believe in the word “enough”, and when it comes to my fitness…it is good enough. Satisfaction applies to so many things in my life…the contentment of being healthy is just a part of Darla…I do not believe that the grass is greener on the other side, wanting to outdo the “Jones’” , and that more is better. I do believe in the saying “I may not have the best of everything but I make the BEST of everything I have”, that less is more, enjoying the simple things, in not sweating the small stuff, and in daily miracles. It is important for me to feel satisfaction, contentment, and value every moment...If I did not do that…I do not think that life would make sense. You may see Darla, the fitness expert, but let me introduce you to Darla, the satisfied person.
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